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FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

Soured Relationships Lead to Sweet Tooth

SAN DIEGO, Monday, September 23, 2002 - A new San Diego State University study published in the September issue of the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology validates why chocolate tastes so good after a breakup, and why that unaffordable pair of shoes in the store window seems like a good buy to someone just after that person has been dumped.

SDSU Psychology Professor Jean M. Twenge and her colleagues found that people who feel as if they have been rejected by others tend to adopt unhealthy, self-defeating behaviors, such as eating junk foods, taking unnecessary risks and disregarding responsibilities to have fun.

This pattern of behavior seems specific to people who feel socially rejected, Twenge said, since those who felt in fear of future bodily harm did not act in a similar manner.

"The need to belong and have close relationships is a fundamental human motivation," Twenge said. "When we feel alone or not connected to other people, that's not a normal state of being, and that's why people adopt unhealthy behaviors."

Twenge said that feeling lonely may cause people to think in the "here and now" rather than the long-term, choosing short-term pleasures in spite of the serious long-term risks.

"In the aftermath of a breakup, people avoid working out at the gym, dieting, and saving money for the future," Twenge said. "Rather, you're going to sit on the couch, eat ice cream, and try to find a movie that's not romantic."

Twenge and her colleagues discovered the link between rejection and behavior through a series of experiments featuring undergraduate students. The study compared the reactions of students who were told that, based on personality tests, they were either likely to end up alone, be constantly surrounded by friends and loved ones, or live a life full of accidents.

In one set of experiments, people who were told they would be alone were the most likely to opt for a high-risk lottery over one that promised less money but a higher chance of winning. In another experiment, people who expected a life alone were the most likely to exhibit unhealthy behaviors, such as eating unhealthy snacks, reading magazines instead of learning about their health, and opting out of exercise.

Compared with people who thought they would end up surrounded by friends, people told they would live their lives alone spent less time practicing for a test they thought they had to take, opting instead to play video games or read magazines.

Twenge said people who expected social rejection did not feel different emotions, despite their different behaviors. As part of the experiments, she and her team of researchers measured participants' moods, and they found that there were no differences between the groups. This result was surprising, Twenge said, because she and her colleagues had suspected that rejected people might do pleasurable things to try to make themselves feel better.

San Diego State University is the oldest and largest higher education institution in the San Diego region. Founded in 1897, SDSU has grown to offer bachelor's degrees in 78 areas, master's degrees in 62 areas and doctorates in 14. SDSU's more than 33,000 students participate in academic curricula distinguished by direct contact with faculty and an increasing international emphasis that prepares them for a global future. For more information log on to www.sdsu.edu.

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